We never know which one comes first, the death or tomorrow. Unexpected things happen every day, sometimes are good, and sometimes are extremely miserable. For instance, tsunami, violent earthquake, car accident. Those tragedy can make people lose their live in a flash. However, their family member and the one they love will suffer the unimaginably painful. Some of them will commit suicide to end this life, which we called indirectly related death.
我們永遠(yuǎn)不知道哪個(gè)先到，死亡或者明天。每天都會(huì)發(fā)生無(wú)法預(yù)料的事情，有時(shí)是好的，有時(shí)特別悲劇。例如大海嘯，大地震，車禍。這些悲劇會(huì)讓人們瞬間斃命。然而，他們的家人和愛(ài)人就會(huì)遭受到無(wú)法想象的痛苦。有些人會(huì)自殺來(lái)結(jié)束這種生活，這種我們叫做間接死亡。

The first thing we need to do is adjust mental attitudes when we lose someone we love. Most people don’t want to accept the reality that their lover were gone forever, they don’t want to keep awake to suffer the painful. Therefore, they drink alcohol to get themselves numb, so that they don’t need to face the truth. But too much wines will hurt their body, which might cause some illness to death. What they need to do is try something can divert attention from painful, like go to trip or doing sport.
當(dāng)我們失去愛(ài)的人的時(shí)候第一件事該做的就是調(diào)整心態(tài)。很多人都不愿意接受自己的愛(ài)人永遠(yuǎn)的離開(kāi)了，他們不愿意清醒地去承受這種痛苦。因此他們用酒精來(lái)麻木自己，這樣他們就不用面對(duì)事實(shí)。但是酗酒會(huì)傷害他們的身體，有可能會(huì)得致命的病。他們需要做的是能夠分散他們痛苦的事情，像旅游和做運(yùn)動(dòng)。

Second, some people are extreme, they think they can’t live anymore without their lover, they will leave everything behind and commit a suicide. Those type of people are mentally weak, they can’t go out of sadness, hence, their family members should pay more attention to them. Before they can have a brighter outlook, one of a family member or friends should be with them to avoid them to hurt themselves.
第二，有些人很極端，他們認(rèn)為沒(méi)有愛(ài)人就活不下去了，他們會(huì)拋開(kāi)一切去自殺。這些人心理很脆弱，他們無(wú)法走出悲痛，因此，他們的家人應(yīng)該多看著他們。在他們能夠看開(kāi)之前，得有個(gè)家人或者朋友陪著他們，防止他們傷害自己。

As has been noted, lots of indirectly related death can be avoid. We need to look for a bright side, but not to the dark side. People should take care for each other when they fall on hard times. If indirectly related death happens, miserable life will never go away, it will only get worse.
如前所述，很多間接死亡都可以避免的。我們應(yīng)該看到光明的一面，而不是黑暗的一面。當(dāng)人們經(jīng)歷挫折的時(shí)候應(yīng)當(dāng)相互照顧。如果間接死亡發(fā)生了，悲慘的生活永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)散去，只會(huì)更糟糕。