How to Communicate With Kids?

As the saying that every family has their issues, the most common issue between families is the communication between parents and children. Most kids would not like to talk about their happiness and sorrow with their parents, they think their parents never really understand them. If the parents want to have nice talk with their kids, they must try to be the kids’ friends.
俗話說，每個家庭都有他們的煩惱，家庭中最普遍的煩惱就是父母和孩子間的溝通。大部分孩子不喜歡和他們的父母談論他們的幸福和憂傷，他們覺得父母從來沒有真正的理解他們。如果家長想要和他們的孩子交流愉快，他們必須嘗試成為孩子的朋友。

The problem why the kids would not like to talk things with their parents is that the parents always treat their kids as the small ones, so when the kids want to try something they are interested, the parents’ first reaction is to deny the children’s trying, and tell them to do this is na?ve. As the parents always judge what their kids do with their viewpoint, the children feel frustrated and don’t want to talk to their parents gradually.
孩子不愿意和他們的父母聊天的問題在于父母總是把他們的孩子當成沒長大，因此當孩子想要和他們聊一些感興趣的話題時，父母的第一反應就是否定孩子的嘗試，告訴他們這樣做事很幼稚的。由于父母總是用他們的眼光來評判孩子的所作所為，孩子會感到受挫，慢慢不想要和他們的父母交流。

The parents should listen to their kids more, it is better not to give the children judgment right now, to be the kids’ friends will help promote the communication. So when the children tell their plans or interesting things, the parents should just listen to them.
父母應該多聆聽孩子的心聲，最好不要立刻給孩子下定論，成為孩子的朋友會讓他們的交流更好地進行。因此當孩子告訴他們父母他們的計劃或者有趣的事情時，父母應該聽聽孩子的。